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My little sister is pregnant with her first little one. We are looking forward to celebrating his arrival with a baby shower soon!
This is very exciting for me since I won’t be purchasing any of these wee items for myself anymore.
I have a small confession: I used to fill online baskets of baby supplies (I never actually bought the items) and create registries for someday-maybe babies in between pregnancies. 😮
I have some pretty strong opinions after three kids about my favorite things. Here’s my list:
1. Ultra-soft newborn nightgown like this one:
I love these for the first month or two because they make night-time diaper changes super simple and allow for skin-to-skin contact for baby’s own legs, which most infants enjoy. Quick, drama-free diaper changes are important for teaching newborns the difference between night and day.
2. Swaddling blankets
I love Aden and Anais, especially for the summer:
Or if your baby is extra wiggly, they make easy swaddles too:
3. Nursing cover up
My favorite is the Bébé au Lait Nursing Cover;
they are extra long and come in all different designs. I have given these as gifts often and they are always a huge hit.
4. The best nursing bras ever!!!
I have tried many, many different nursing bra brands and styles. They are typically itchy, ugly and poorly made. Itchy things are the worst! Bravado nursing bras are truly worth the expense when you weigh them against the cost of organic formula and the health benefits your children receive because you didn’t give up on breastfeeding. My first two months of breastfeeding were an awful experience for me. I just kept telling myself another week. Then I made it another week and I would do another. Having itching ill-fitting bras didn’t help my cause. By my third child, one of my BFF’s gave me a few of these and the difference was AMAZING! I was able to comfortably breastfeed her for a full fifteen months. With my first two children I eventually gave up on nursing bras and just wore regular bras and tried to wiggle in and out of them. That was my best option until I discovered these comfortable, soft, well-made little beauties!
5. Infant Wrap
I had the Boba Wrap back when it was the Sleepy Wrap. http://www.boba.com/store/baby-wrap/
Some women say their babies don’t like to be wrapped in these things, but my experience was quite the opposite and I wore mine during church, walking through Disney World, even for public speaking situations. I just strapped baby in and kept going.
6. Some kind of baby bouncer
These are great items if you ever want to take a shower again!
Seriously, I would always carry my bouncer into the bathroom with me. I could easily calm baby if he was upset. Not to mention, the warm mist can be a helpful little humidifier too! Here’s a shot of one of my girls fast asleep from the warm bathroom shower in her little bouncer.
After I created this list I realized that these are also some of my top-picks because they are all pretty essential in my sleeping plan too:
And I have to thank my girlfriend, who introduced my to the Bravado Bras, but pretty much everything else on the list too! You know who you are! XO
PS-Eventually I trained her not to suck her fingers. When she was in the wrap her arms were strapped in so she reluctantly learned to take a pacifier.
I recently came across this post that went viral on Facebook and other places:
She details a variety of ways to be a more encouraging friend to new moms when you visit them.
Altogether we would generally do well to take her advice, but as the old saying goes, “do as I say, not as I do,” she seems to encourage a generous and gracious spirit but writes with an entitled and judgmental tone.
While I agree that visitors would do well to bring the food or gifts that the family needs rather than the food or knick-knacks she wants to bring, do we really need to list rules for how to visit and show love?
Don’t these expectations set us up for hurt feelings and judgement?
Aren’t these unreasonable expectations? We are the ones who chose to have babies. It really isn’t someone else’s responsibility to feed and clothe them.
Is it really so bad that someone is so excited that she is thinking more about seeing the baby and offering emotional support than providing us with leftovers?
I truly appreciated the girlfriends who brought enough food for leftovers, the ones who brought extra gifts that were practical rather than plants or teddy bears, but that’s not really the point.
The point is that if we want to encourage generosity and grace in others, we should expect it of ourselves, even in our speech.
So I won’t give rules but I will offer 3 pieces of advice:
1-Ask the mother what she wants from you.
2-Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
3-Love covers over a multitude of sins.
I am glad you took to the time to answer that post. I heartily agree!! 🙂
One of my friends shared it on her Facebook wall and yesterday a speaker at a sustainability conference even recommended it, saying that parents today spend too much time “on those things like Pinterest” and “working so hard to make their children’s live magical.”
“They’re just making their own lives harder,” she scoffed, “trying to make everything perfect.”
Then she said it’s because we mothers are addicted to stress.
Yes, it turns out we secretly like stress and so the quest to make childhood fun is some deep, psychological quest to make ourselves unhappy.
Or something like that. I had a really hard time understanding the logic in any of it.
These people seem to completely miss the point about what makes a childhood magical, and why some of us…
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